Meet more women. Then choose the right one.
Hey, I'm MLD from Modern Life Dating. I help men meet a lot of women to date, so they can eventually find a girlfriend or wife, by building Money, Muscle, Game & Frame.
Apply for 1-on-1 coachingFree · about 5 minutes · I read every application myself.
Don't take my word for it. Take theirs.
Photos and messages from men I've worked with, shared with permission. More on the testimonials page.
Planning to move her up here once the time comes.
Face blurred for her privacy.I wouldn't have gotten here without your guidance & strictness.
I now see all the women flirting with me at work, the gym, and at social events.
joining ended up being one of the best investments I’ve ever made.
Jonathan is a social sniper.
Free to apply. If I can't help you, I'll tell you.
Results vary. These are individual experiences, not a promise or a prediction of your results. Yours depend on your starting point, effort and consistency.
Your dating life is the result. These four are the cause.
I began my career as a high-performance coach. Now I help men build the four things that decide their dating life.
Money
Financial stability and abundance, so you're building instead of chasing income.
Muscle
Health, fitness and nutrition. Time and health are the assets you can't buy back.
Before / After
After, he was able to go on dates with far more beautiful women.
Individual result. Fitness results vary with training, diet and consistency.
Game
Charisma, character and communication. Meet her, talk to her, lead.
Frame
Boundaries and self-respect you MUST give yourself.
Money, Muscle, Game & Frame starts with accountability.
Two ways to work with me.
1-on-1 is where the biggest changes happen. The group is where to start if you're not ready for that yet.
VIP 1-on-1 coaching
By application
- Your plan across all four pillars
- A 12-week program built around your life
- Texting, profile and date feedback
- A limited number of clients at a time
Free to apply · I read every one myself.
Monthly group coaching
$150/month · cancel anytime
- 2 live Zoom calls a month (2nd and 4th Sunday)
- Telegram group: money, dating, fitness
- Direct access to me for your questions
Next call: Sun, Oct 11 · 9 PM ET
Not sure? Apply. If 1-on-1 isn't right for you yet, I'll tell you and point you to the group.
Hey, I'm MLD.
Founder of Modern Life Dating. Coaching men since 2015. Based in Manila after 8 years in Tokyo.
The reason I continue to lead this movement is that this is my life's mission. I will be helping men for a very, very long time.
Why men apply, from an MLD application“He has the receipts and the network, he's done it himself.”
Watch before you apply.
If you like how I explain things, you'll like how I coach.
Quick answers.
The questions men ask most before they apply.
Where do I start?
If you want the biggest change, fastest: apply for 1-on-1. If you want to start smaller: the $150/month group. Not sure? Apply. If 1-on-1 isn't right for you yet, I'll tell you.
What's Money, Muscle, Game & Frame?
The four pillars behind every man's dating life: financial stability, your health and body, your social skill with women, and your boundaries and self-respect. Build all four and dating stops being the problem.
Do you still sell self-paced courses?
Most of my work now is 1-on-1 coaching and the monthly group, because that's where I can do the most for you.
Do you offer refunds?
Short version: 1-on-1 is by application, so you'll know we're a fit before you pay anything. All sales are final. The one exception: once you've completed the full program, you're covered by a 30-day money-back guarantee. The monthly group can be canceled anytime. Full policy on the 1-on-1 page and in the Terms.
I want a relationship, not just dates. Is this for me?
Yes. My whole approach is to meet a lot of women so you can eventually choose the right one, for a girlfriend or a wife. A lot of the men I coach want exactly that.
Stop guessing. Start choosing.
Apply for 1-on-1. I read every application myself.
Free · about 5 minutes · Private: only I and my team read your application.