About

Hey, I'm MLD.

Founder of Modern Life Dating and creator of Money, Muscle, Game & Frame. Most people know me as MLD.

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My story

Look, I've been in your shoes.

The short version, in my own words.

I know what it feels like when the world seems to judge you for every little thing you do. It sucks.

I began my career as a high-performance coach. I started Modern Life Dating in 2015, spent about eight years building it from Tokyo, and I'm now based in Manila.

Along the way I've run programs for men all over the world: Body Language Mastery, SALT, M.E.N., Inner Game Healing and more. Today I coach men 1-on-1, by application, and run a monthly group for everyone else.

This is my life's mission.

I will be helping men for a very, very long time.

What it's like

What it's like to be coached by me.

I'm not for everyone. Here's how the men I've coached describe it.

Body Language Mastery

I turned out to be the groups most senior guy at age 55.

Facebook comment from Rick: newly divorced after 18 years of marriage, he joined Body Language Mastery, was the group's most senior member at 55, and tells older men not to let age stop them.
Rick, 55 · divorced after 18 years (his words) · Body Language Mastery · late 2019.
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If there's one word to describe Body language mastery, its VALUE, initially I wasn't thinking about taking the course because I had always been successful with women when I was single. After 18yrs of marriage and being newly divorced in January 2019 , I started to consider taking it. The closer the deadline got the more I convinced myself. I thought why not take this course it would only add to my skills. why not have more weapons in my dating arsenal , so I contacted Jon MLD the night of the deadline, after talking to Jon about the course I pulled the trigger, I'm so glad I did. Body language mastery was a good investment not only in myself, but in the group of Red Pill men that I met striving to improve themselves, after watching the video modules and learning the signs & signals women give off , I couldn't help seeing the signs everywhere. Jon worked tirelessly , he genuinely cared and gave advice like a good older brother , tough and straightforward with those who needed it. The Guest speakers included Rollo Tomassi, Donovan Sharpe, Rich Cooper, Afi Kingdom, Rian Stone, UFC fighter Jon Fitch , they all gave time and Valuable advice. My fellow participants helped each other and gave constructive input. another great value.I turned out to be the groups most senior guy at age 55. So guys don't let your age deter you from taking the course. I gave advice to guys happily, being a ladies man before marriage. I'm very happy I enrolled in this course , I've met some great guys with similar beliefs. I got to see how knowledgeable and cool Jon MLD really is. I would tell anyone interested in this course .sign up , you wont be disappointed. great value. I'll be attending quarter 4. see you […]

Body Language Mastery

a bit like a drill sergeant in the positive way

Facebook comment from Peter, a Dutch member who attended about half the webinars: Jon cuts through the noise, puts you in your place and then helps you grow, like a drill sergeant in a positive way.
Peter · Body Language Mastery · late 2019.
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When I enrolled I didn't know what to expect from the Body Language Mastery course. My mission in life of the last few months has been to surround myself with people of the same or of higher status (and cut the ones that are lower), so I can keep growing as an individual. I already followed courses that learned me how to invest in real estate and in shares. I also wanted to follow a course for my personal development. What a good choice it was to enroll in this course and attend these webinars! As a Dutch citizen I tried the best to attend the most webinars as possible (attended around 50% of all webinars). The stories you people shared were invaluable to me and motivated me even more to continue my mission in life to improve myself and make myself my mental point of origin. I can't thank you guys enough! Jon knows best how to cut through bullsh*t and how to put you on your place, to help you afterwards, motivate you and make you grow as an individual (a bit like a drill sergeant in the positive way 🙂👍) . I love it how on point he was every time during the webinars. There was no time for crap or irrelevant topics or talks.

MLD community

Jonathan is a social sniper.

Facebook comment from Shosuke: Jonathan is a social sniper who digs deep into your psychology quickly, and he and the community build you up to where you want to go.
Shosuke · MLD community (Facebook group) · 2019–2020.
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Jonathan is a social sniper. He’ll dig very deep into your psychology very quickly. He’ll figure out what you’re struggling with and find out things you might not have known about yourself. Then him and this community will build you up to where YOU WANT TO GO. Money help, fitness help, social help, it’s all in good direction as so long as you want it. It’s a positive group, they will help you too. We’re all here to be men.

Body Language Mastery

Jon is a down to earth guy who is a open book and doesn't beat around the bush.

Facebook comment from Daniel H., in self-development since 23 and now 29: he calls the course his best investment and says Jon is down to earth and doesn't beat around the bush.
Daniel H. · Body Language Mastery · 2019.
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I have been involved in self development since I was 23 I am now 29 this is by far the best investment I have bought. The body language mastery course is life changing in its self. The webinars Jon offers are a gold mine of value. Coaches from the red pill community who all have various skill sets where you can pick there brains. Jon is a down to earth guy who is a open book and doesn't beat around the bush. He will set you on the right path to achieve a great life.

Body Language Mastery

his style is not to everyone's taste, though he knows his stuff

YouTube comment from John S., in Jon's community since the start: the course shows body language you can't learn from books; Jon's style isn't for everyone, but he knows his stuff.
John S. · YouTube comment · Body Language Mastery · Sep 2019.
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seductive feeding" & "proximity" - two samples from the BLM course. I have been in Jon's community since the start. His content is good. Other books mention body language, however you can not see some things in text or books. Learning from visual clues helps massively. There is nothing out there, as far as I am aware, like this course from Jon. / MLD's course is not the only thing you get from joining body language mastery. There are group coaching webinars and additional group content & mentoring in a private shared online group. / Yes, Jon is selling his course and his 1-1 coaching, this is how he survives it is his livelihood. Yes, his style is not to everyone's taste, though he knows his stuff and he is on purpose getting his content out there virtually everyday online! / I appreciate Jon and what he does 💯

Finished your course. It was clear, concise, informative & well presented.

Tweet from BullRush replying to @ModernLifeJon on Sep 28, 2019: 'Finished your course. It was clear, concise, informative & well presented. Ya done good, Jon.'
BullRush (@jwc45acp) · public tweet · Sep 28, 2019.
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Replying to @ModernLifeJon / Finished your course. It was clear, concise, informative & well presented. Ya done good, Jon.

Results vary. These are individual experiences, not a promise or a prediction of your results. Yours depend on your starting point, effort and consistency.

Since 2015

The short version.

Programs come and go. The mission hasn't changed.

  1. 2015

    Founded Modern Life Dating

  2. 2019

    Body Language Mastery: quarterly cohorts with twice-daily live webinars

  3. 2020

    SALT, and Pandemic Pickup (with Myron Gaines)

  4. 2021–2023

    M.E.N., the Masculine Empowerment Network, a yearly Telegram group

  5. 2023

    Inner Game Healing

  6. ~2024

    Dark Pass

  7. Today

    VIP 1-on-1 coaching by application, plus the monthly group

See the results from each program

Where you've seen me

You've probably seen me on YouTube.

Most men find me through my channel.

222K+YouTube subscribers
50.8KInstagram followers
2015Coaching men since
Questions

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Where are you based?

Manila, Philippines, after about eight years in Tokyo. I coach men all over the world online.

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